The Love of Light Couples Retreat.

COMING SOON

Rumi.

“Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.”

Throughout my life, I’ve witnessed how relationships can either serve as a path to profound spiritual growth or, at times, become entangled in subtle cycles of miscommunication and unspoken expectations, subconsciously falling into cycles of blame. But I’ve also seen how, with intention and awareness, couples can deepen into a new level of sacred and sweet tenderness - my commitment to this is rooted in my lineage and practices from the highest tantric paths of Kalachakra Tantra and Vajrayana.

It’s a journey of training the mind to see with compassion and move beyond the false constructs of expectation that so often lead to disappointment and pain. Whether you’re building on a strong foundation or seeking new ways to deepen your connection, this retreat is designed to honour and support your unique journey as a couple. It’s an opportunity to celebrate your journey, explore new dimensions of love, and align with a higher purpose as partners walking this path side by side.

This is an intimate retreat, and participation is limited. Applications are thoughtfully reviewed and approved upon inquiry to ensure the experience aligns with both of your journeys.

For Couples Seeking More: A Sacred Invitation.

With the utmost luxury, privacy, and gentleness, this retreat provides a unique opportunity to nurture your relationship on every level—spiritually, emotionally, and energetically. For many, this experience goes far beyond what traditional approaches can offer, creating a lasting impact that feels both sacred and life-changing. It offers new template of compassion, generosity, and heart-centered connection, allowing you to experience spiritual companionship like never before. Taking pleasure in pleasuring, making room for vulnerability and truth, opening in full transparency and being held in a new level of love.

How I Work
with Couples.

I work with couples no matter where they are in their journey. Some arrive with one partner feeling upset, angry, withdrawn, or stuck in blame. Others may feel disappointed and at their wit's end, seeing this retreat as a final chance to find clarity and gain clarity on the way forward. At the same time, some couples may come in harmony, eager to deepen their connection and explore advanced White Tantric techniques to reach new levels of intimacy and spiritual partnership, moving beyond the ordinary into something truly extraordinary.

At the heart of this work is absolute compassion and a no-blame approach. This is a safe and open space to explore the deeper wounds that can manifest as blame, anger, disconnection, avoidance, or even numbness. We will work to gently untangle fears and work to reset the lens through which you see each other and some couples also experience healing on a generational level. I guide this process through a combination of discourse, energy work, shamanic journeys, sacred breathwork, sound healing, and movement. We also use medicine music, dance, and intentional pauses to help you find the words and actions that bring love into a completely new expression.

When we work as a group, all practices are done fully clothed, honouring your comfort and boundaries. In private moments, you’ll have the opportunity to experience energetic intimacy in soft candlelight, creating a sacred space for deep connection and presence with each other. I emphasise this to clarify that White Tantra is distinct from Red Tantra, as the two are often misunderstood.

What Can You Hope to Get Out of This Work?

Most people subconsciously avoid THE SELF—not the ego or the identity we often think of as “me,” but the deeper, eternal self that is pure, unchanging, and always in union with THE ONE. When we truly feel this connection to the unified field of The One, we can finally feel ready to let someone else in. True intimacy—real connection—starts with "in-to-me-I-see." It’s easier to believe that the other person is the reason we feel disconnected from ourselves, but the truth is, we’ve always been longing to come home to the purity of our own heart.

This retreat is an opportunity to go on an individual shamanic journey to the deepest centre of yourself so that you can meet your partner in a completely new and authentic way.

You’ll be offered techniques to connect with each other energetically and spiritually, opening your relationship to deeper levels of connection and subtle, refined sensuality. We're confident this will be a truly unique experience, unlike anything you've attended before to support and deepen your relationship.

Further details will be
provided upon inquiry.

  • "My experience at the conscious couples retreat was life-changing. I came hoping to deepen my spiritual connection with my partner, but it exceeded all expectations. The sense of safety created by Rita, the team, and my partner allowed me to dive deeply into my own work, bringing profound presence and openness to our relationship. The space to meet myself first, then show up purely for my partner, resonated deeply, and the rituals and workshops offered an incredible opportunity to practice this. Connecting with other couples from around the world and witnessing their unique expressions of love was truly beautiful. Whether you’re struggling or simply want to deepen your bond, I can’t recommend this retreat enough—I’m already looking forward to the next one!"

  • "Sending love your way—thank you for bringing us together in such a beautiful celebration. You are dear to my heart, and I admire how your love and creativity ripple outward, touching lives far beyond time and space. Your unique gatherings transport us to a Shambala here on earth, where the boundless love felt is truly transformative. May that love amplify through each of our hearts and return to you multifold, bringing healing and manifesting all your heart dreams of.

  • "The retreat was truly transformative. After years of feeling stuck in both my career and relationship, the experience helped me uncover what I truly needed to grow. It deepened the bond with my partner, helping us communicate more openly and rekindle our connection. Personally, it reignited my passion for work, and I now approach my career with a sense of purpose and alignment. This retreat has not only strengthened our relationship but also inspired me to help others discover the same healing and growth we experienced together."

  • "In February 2024, my husband and I attended Rita’s couples retreat in Sri Lanka. Having worked with Rita for over three years, I can truly say her wisdom, teachings, and retreats have been life-changing. Rita and her team create a sacred space for deep healing, marked by immense care and attention to detail. The ceremonies, workshops, and interactions with other couples opened our eyes to new possibilities and brought profound insights. We are now walking a new path together, thanks to the transformative experience. Thank you, Rita, for holding us with such care and love."

  • "The most profound, in-depth, and truly life-changing retreat I’ve ever attended—thank you for helping us realign with ourselves and each other."

FAQ

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  • This retreat is for couples at any stage of their relationship. Whether you’re feeling disconnected or stuck in patterns, or simply want to deepen your already strong connection, this retreat is designed to support you in growing and evolving together.

  • On this retreat, we will work in 3 meditation ceremonies, but as you can see, much of the experience is centered around holding space, in-depth discourse and guidance, subtle yet profound practices.

    What makes this retreat so unique is its immersive nature and the opportunity to explore deep emotional and relational layers in a way that weekly therapy sessions often cannot achieve.

    Unlike traditional couples therapy, where progress can take months due to shorter, sporadic sessions, this retreat allows for continuous and focused time together. Over the course of several days, we create a sacred container that enables a deep unraveling of blocks, patterns, and fears, while offering tools to build new pathways of connection and understanding. Rita brings over 20 years of experience working with couples in ways that are both compassionate and transformative.

    With the utmost luxury, privacy, and gentleness, this retreat provides a unique opportunity to nurture your relationship on every level—spiritually, emotionally, and energetically. For many, this experience goes far beyond what traditional approaches can offer, creating a lasting impact that feels both sacred and life-changing.

  • No prior experience is necessary. The teachings are shared in an accessible way, and everything is guided step-by-step. All that’s needed is your willingness to show up with openness and presence.

  • White Tantra is a sacred practice that works with your natural energy to cultivate deeper intimacy and connection. It’s not focused on physical sexual techniques but rather on energetically aligning with your partner in a way that is healing, transformative, and deeply fulfilling.

  • While the retreat incorporates sacred sexuality teachings, it’s not focused on physical sexual pleasure or techniques. Instead, it explores deeper energetic connections that can transform how you experience intimacy with your partner.

  • Yes, travel to the venue and transfers are your responsibility. However, the resort can assist with arranging transfers from the local airport and Scoo is on hand to talk to you at depth about anything you need.

  • Yes, the schedule includes downtime for reflection, relaxation, and connecting with your partner.

  • Comfortable summer clothing for the day, swimwear for leisure time, a journal, and any personal items you’ll need for the week. A detailed packing list will be shared closer to the retreat date.

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